Welcome, you daring explorer of desire, and congratulations on making your way from The Monogamy Spectrum Book to this very website. You’re clearly someone who doesn’t shy away from the good stuff—like clarity, connection, and just the right amount of mischief.

You're about to take the “Define Your Boundaries” quiz, which should take you around 30 minutes— less time than an awkward dinner date, and way more revealing. Once you're done, hand it off to your partner so they can take it too. After you’ve both bared your souls (or at least your preferences), I’ll email you a breakdown of what you agree on, where you differ, and a few thoughtful suggestions to get the conversation flowing.

Just one important detail: you'll need your unique Amazon order number, from when you bought this book, to match your answers anonymously with your partner's. No names, no shame—just two consenting adults, getting delightfully honest.

Ready? Let’s get into it.